10 traits of a perfect boyfriend :)grabbed from lhenie :) (http://lhenie.multiply.com)
10. He listens.
When words come out of her mouth, do you actually pay attention to what is being said, or does your brain just process mumbling sounds while you stare at her chest? A good boyfriend is an active listener, meaning he asks questions and doesn't just sit there, waiting for his turn to speak. Showing her that you have a genuine interest in what she has to say means, among other things, that you respect her opinions and find her interesting; two things that will meet any woman's criteria.
9. He's spontaneous.
A great relationship is one that never feels stale. So to avoid having your flames of desire burn out, you have to be unpredictable and mysterious in order to keep her guessing (and on her toes). Whether you whisk her away to a Mexican resort at the last minute or show up, for no apparent reason, with Chinese takeout, wine and a pair of handcuffs, spontaneity can add some real excitement to the romance, and intrigue her all the more. Women love to be swept away in as many different ways as possible; it's up to you to come up with as many ideas as you can.
8. He satisfies her bedroom desires.
Saying that sex is important would be a gross understatement. A good boyfriend must satisfy his woman's every romantic need (and yes, she should reciprocate). There's a difference between making love just for the sake of it, and being passionate about it. That means never skipping foreplay, sending her soothing messages during the act (Note: it's okay to ask her, point-blank, what she likes), and not falling asleep the minute you're done.
7. He's not whipped.
She may feel more empowered by it in the beginning, but in the long run, no woman wants a passive, submissive man who completely compromises his personality to make her happy. Retain your personality, stand by your opinions, and don't give in too easily. Show her that you are strong, confident, and have a spine.
6. He notices the small stuff.
Did she suddenly get highlights in her hair, shed a few pounds, or buy a new dress? These are all things you need to take note of; most women instinctively flock to guys with keen eyes. It shows that you are attentive and don't skim over life's more subtle details.
5. He gives her space.
Trust is the foundation of any good relationship. Part of that entails giving her the freedom to have a life separate from yours without asking 20 questions or having jealous fits, and knowing that she's not taking your trust for granted. Keep things in perspective; would you like a girlfriend who kept tabs on every move you made? Probably not, and the same goes for her. And always look for a silver lining; in this case, you'll have time to hang out with your buddies, and have something to talk to her about the next time you see her.
4. He respects her (and her family).
It's important to avoid letting your ego get the best of you, so if your mentality is stuck in the '50s, you must adjust to changing times. You have to understand that she's an equal part of the relationship, so appreciate her company. Likewise, try to embrace her family early on. In addition to scoring precious points, being kind and courteous toward her parents is a good way to show that you're serious about the relationship. This includes, but is not limited to, bringing the parents thoughtful little gifts every so often, and planning activities that include her whole family, like a picnic. Of course, I'm assuming that you've already survived that dreadful first meeting.
3. He betters himself.
Demonstrating what a positive effect your woman has had on you is a fantastic way of gaining leverage. Whether you're getting yourself back into shape, improving your vocabulary, or forgetting about the television long enough to take dance lessons with her, it doesn't matter. Improving yourself is a great way of letting her know she deserves the best, and she'll be flattered that she was the inspiration behind your desire to aim higher.
2. He challenges her to be better.
Likewise, your role in her life should be just as beneficial. You should inspire her to make changes that reflect the positive effect you've had on her. If, for example, you see her letting a great talent go to waste, encourage her; maybe that's all she needs. Don't be afraid to sign her up for an art class, or push her to pursue a career you know she'd be good at. The fact that you care that much about her well-being will make her want to keep you around longer.
1. He makes her feel beautiful.
Reminding her how beautiful she is comes with making her feel good, and makes you a poster boyfriend. Best of all: simplicity and honesty are all you need. Buy her, say, a card that expresses your appreciation, compliment her at odd times, and if you feel that she's the most gorgeous creature you've ever laid eyes on, be sure to let her know. Women want to look good for their men, and proving to her that you only have eyes for her will be a validation of that.
djblah at 6:50 AM
Friday, January 23, 2009
this is because of D eh.. LOL..
my shift starts at 8pm and ends at 5 in the morning, rest days are Fridays and Saturdays..
his starts at 4 in the morning and ends at 1 in the afternoon.. and his rest days are Saturday and Sunday shifts..
he called me up just a while ago before he went to sleep..
we talked, and he 'fessed up, told me that he's feelin' sad..
i asked him why, but i already knew the reason..
"is it because our shifts are too far from each other?"
"yeah.."
then he started sobbing..
"don't cry, we'll still see each other.. we already made plans right? on how we gonna meet up each other now and then..?"
"yeah.. but i'm gonna miss you.. i'm gonna miss the times like how we always, ALWAYS, go to work together.."
i'm so touched.. i feel so blessed.. so loved.. i've never been loved like this by anybody before.. :')
i was so touched i also cried..
LOL, we cried together. it's so the drama. :)
and he 'fessed up another thing,
"you're the only person i've cried over about something like this.." (meaning he misses me, teehee.)
i cried again. wooh. tears of joy, man.
i just wanna remember this moment, and so i blogged about it.. ♥
i'm so high in love!!! XD
☻☻☻
my shift starts at 8pm and ends at 5 in the morning, rest days are Fridays and Saturdays..
his starts at 4 in the morning and ends at 1 in the afternoon.. and his rest days are Saturday and Sunday shifts..
he called me up just a while ago before he went to sleep..
we talked, and he 'fessed up, told me that he's feelin' sad..
i asked him why, but i already knew the reason..
"is it because our shifts are too far from each other?"
"yeah.."
then he started sobbing..
"don't cry, we'll still see each other.. we already made plans right? on how we gonna meet up each other now and then..?"
"yeah.. but i'm gonna miss you.. i'm gonna miss the times like how we always, ALWAYS, go to work together.."
i'm so touched.. i feel so blessed.. so loved.. i've never been loved like this by anybody before.. :')
i was so touched i also cried..
LOL, we cried together. it's so the drama. :)
and he 'fessed up another thing,
"you're the only person i've cried over about something like this.." (meaning he misses me, teehee.)
i cried again. wooh. tears of joy, man.
i just wanna remember this moment, and so i blogged about it.. ♥
i'm so high in love!!! XD
☻☻☻
ang daming Pinoy na nagpupimilit mag EOP (English Only Policy hahaha yuck.)
pero wrong gramming naman. (grammar yan, sariling term ko yan.)
we were on the bus the other day on our way home, when 3 girls, i think they're 3, well anyway who cares, tas nagchi-chikahan sila, etong isang ate ingglisera pa, mali-mali naman pala ung grammar.
actually i did not hear the actual sentence, si densyo lang, (may pagka-chismoso kasi un, nakikinig pa sa usapan ng iba, ako tulala lang sa labas nakatingin, blanko ang utak, nababangag dahil sa 11 hour shift ng training) nang sinabi raw nung isang babae:
"I DIDN'T SAW HIM..."
or something like that, i really cannot remember the actual sentence. (sa pagka-kaalam ko "i didnt SEE him" ata dapat un. minsan nabobobo din ako sa english aminado ko dun, pero kung di naman kailangan, mag-tagalog nalang kasi, point ko, di ung pag-mukha mo pang tanga ung sarili mo. :D)
WTF :))))))))))))))))))))
basta bottomline is:
didn't + past tense ng word, do not mix. :D
si ate nagi-english pa oh, nagpupumilit magmukhang "sosi".
siguro isip niya, porket nasa Makati siya nagwo-work ay sosyalan na siya. :))
well anyways, this is usually the common mistakes of Filipinos, the word "did" plus some verb.
read more kasi! or stop watching stupid Filipino movies and teleseryes! kaya tayo nabobobo eh.
♫
pero wrong gramming naman. (grammar yan, sariling term ko yan.)
we were on the bus the other day on our way home, when 3 girls, i think they're 3, well anyway who cares, tas nagchi-chikahan sila, etong isang ate ingglisera pa, mali-mali naman pala ung grammar.
actually i did not hear the actual sentence, si densyo lang, (may pagka-chismoso kasi un, nakikinig pa sa usapan ng iba, ako tulala lang sa labas nakatingin, blanko ang utak, nababangag dahil sa 11 hour shift ng training) nang sinabi raw nung isang babae:
"I DIDN'T SAW HIM..."
or something like that, i really cannot remember the actual sentence. (sa pagka-kaalam ko "i didnt SEE him" ata dapat un. minsan nabobobo din ako sa english aminado ko dun, pero kung di naman kailangan, mag-tagalog nalang kasi, point ko, di ung pag-mukha mo pang tanga ung sarili mo. :D)WTF :))))))))))))))))))))
basta bottomline is:
didn't + past tense ng word, do not mix. :D
si ate nagi-english pa oh, nagpupumilit magmukhang "sosi".
siguro isip niya, porket nasa Makati siya nagwo-work ay sosyalan na siya. :))
well anyways, this is usually the common mistakes of Filipinos, the word "did" plus some verb.
read more kasi! or stop watching stupid Filipino movies and teleseryes! kaya tayo nabobobo eh.
♫
Labels: blah, bus, djblaaah, nosebleed, stupid filipinos
Wednesday, January 21, 2009
ang mga tao mahilig bumili ng Havaianas..
i mean, what's so great about spending a thousand bucks for just rubber slippers?
obviously, you're just buying the brand.
and for most Pinoys?
of course that is so they'll look "sosyal". (a.k.a. KONYO = konyaring mayaman)
partnering it of course with their regular mocha frappe on one hand to complete the look.
sabi nga sa kikomachine komix eh..
"...one thousand para sa tsinelas??..."
"e tingnan mo nga naman kasi ung contours niya.. ung design..ung lambot.. at appeal.. 'me malalim na gamit 'yan.. pag bumili ka niyan eh maguunahan ang mga ipis sa inyo para magpa-palo! privilege sa kanila 'yun.. rakenrol!"
imagine all those roaches screaming your name, begging you to hit them with your Havaginas.
hardcore.
♫
i mean, what's so great about spending a thousand bucks for just rubber slippers?
obviously, you're just buying the brand.
and for most Pinoys?
of course that is so they'll look "sosyal". (a.k.a. KONYO = konyaring mayaman)
partnering it of course with their regular mocha frappe on one hand to complete the look.
sabi nga sa kikomachine komix eh..
"...one thousand para sa tsinelas??..."
"e tingnan mo nga naman kasi ung contours niya.. ung design..ung lambot.. at appeal.. 'me malalim na gamit 'yan.. pag bumili ka niyan eh maguunahan ang mga ipis sa inyo para magpa-palo! privilege sa kanila 'yun.. rakenrol!"
imagine all those roaches screaming your name, begging you to hit them with your Havaginas.
hardcore.
♫
Wednesday, January 14, 2009
your love one cries just because he misses you..
(note: even if you two were just together 6 hours before..? ü)
aaaawwww... ♥♥♥
(note: even if you two were just together 6 hours before..? ü)
aaaawwww... ♥♥♥
Monday, January 12, 2009
"All Mine"
All the stars may shine bright
All the clouds may be white
But when you smile
Ohh how I feel so good
That I can hardly wait
To hold you
Enfold you
Never enough
Render your heart to me
All mine.......
You have to be
From that cloud, number nine
Danger starts the sharp incline
And such sad regrets
Ohh as those starry skies
As they swiftly fall
Make no mistake
You shan't escape
Tethered and tied
There's nowhere to hide from me
All mine....
You have to be
Don't resist
We shall exist
Until the day I die
Until the day I die
All mine.......
You have to be
All the stars may shine bright
All the clouds may be white
But when you smile
Ohh how I feel so good
That I can hardly wait
To hold you
Enfold you
Never enough
Render your heart to me
All mine.......
You have to be
From that cloud, number nine
Danger starts the sharp incline
And such sad regrets
Ohh as those starry skies
As they swiftly fall
Make no mistake
You shan't escape
Tethered and tied
There's nowhere to hide from me
All mine....
You have to be
Don't resist
We shall exist
Until the day I die
Until the day I die
All mine.......
You have to be
Labels: all mine, blah, dj blaaah, in love, portishead
I've been jumping from the tops of buildings.
For the thrill of the fall.
Ignoring sound advice.
And any thought of consequence.
My bones are shattered.
My pride is shattered.
And in the midst of this self-inflicted pain.
I can see my beautiful rescue.
I'm falling more in love.
With every single word I withhold.
I'm falling more in love.
With every single word you say.
I'm falling head-over-heels for you.
I've been dancing on the tops of buildings.
At the top of my lungs I'm singing you a song.
Don't you leave me alone.
My bones were shattered.
My pride lays shattered.
Well I'll trample my pride and tell the whole world.
To dance with me.
I'm falling more in love.
With every single word I withhold.
I'm falling more in love.
With every single word you say.
I'm falling head-over-heels for you again.
I'm crying out.
"Wash my hands, these bloody hands Lord. Open my mouth and I'll sing."
I'm falling more in love.
With every single word I withhold.
I'm falling more in love.
With every single word you say.
I'm falling head-over-heels for you.
I've been dancing on the tops of buildings.
With you.
For the thrill of the fall.
Ignoring sound advice.
And any thought of consequence.
My bones are shattered.
My pride is shattered.
And in the midst of this self-inflicted pain.
I can see my beautiful rescue.
I'm falling more in love.
With every single word I withhold.
I'm falling more in love.
With every single word you say.
I'm falling head-over-heels for you.
I've been dancing on the tops of buildings.
At the top of my lungs I'm singing you a song.
Don't you leave me alone.
My bones were shattered.
My pride lays shattered.
Well I'll trample my pride and tell the whole world.
To dance with me.
I'm falling more in love.
With every single word I withhold.
I'm falling more in love.
With every single word you say.
I'm falling head-over-heels for you again.
I'm crying out.
"Wash my hands, these bloody hands Lord. Open my mouth and I'll sing."
I'm falling more in love.
With every single word I withhold.
I'm falling more in love.
With every single word you say.
I'm falling head-over-heels for you.
I've been dancing on the tops of buildings.
With you.
Labels: beautiful, blah, dj blaaah, in love, love, rescue, this providence
Friday, January 9, 2009
this afternoon, we rode the LRT from central terminal to get home faster (i havent been gettin any sleep lately, palaging 2 hours lang kasi pina-practice namin ung sayaw for this saturday's company event, how is the hagardness in that) to get some sleep sana.
anyways going back. i really can never understand why pinoys can be really annoying most of the time.
what i'm talkin about is discipline.
when the train stopped at carriedo, the people were all in a hurry. idk why. but it was one helluva dipshit.
the people going out and going in were all rushing.
all at the same time. in a rush.
idk why talaga. ano ba problema nila ba't kailangan nilang magsabay-sabay with matching tulak pa talaga. parang mga gago. samantalang pwede namang magbigayan ng daan para sa isa't-isa. potaness na mga pinoy yan.
TINALO PA TAYO NG MGA LANGGAM, buti pa sila marunong mag give way.
kaya kung maliitin din tayo ng ibang bansa, grabe din eh. we-ll may karapatan naman sila. dahil talagang kalait-lait talaga ang bansa, AT ang race natin.
LOL tas kung maoffend ang mga pinoy sa remarks ng mga foreigners, ha, ibang klase din. kapal din ng mukha. di naman kapuri-puri ang race natin sus.
tapos eto pa ung pinaka-talagang-malupet-oh-so-ever.
edi nakababa na lahat ng mga kupaloids na mga pasahero, at nakasakay narin ung mga kupaloids na iba, ung mga katabi kong nakaupo bumaba narin ng tren, so hinihintay ko kung may uupo bang mas nangangailangan kesa sakin, eh pansin kong wala naman, so dapat uupo na ko.
tapos kung di ba naman dun sa putangnang mama na nakatayo sa likod ko before ay dapat nakaupo ako.
aba'y, si manong nakipag-unahan pa sakin para lang makaupo.
with matching tulak pa, samantalang nung nag-aabang ako kung may uupo ba di naman siya kumikibo. pucha.
masaklap pa dun, hindi naman siya lolo para pagbigyan ng upuan.
he must've been in his late 30's.
whatta gentleman.
fcuk.
PINOYS ARE LIKE BARBARIANS.
what an embarassment.
this happening made me pissed so much i just had to blog about it. (at sa sobrang init ng ulo ko kanina, naging bitch na kami ni densyo at wala ng humpay ang paririnig namin sa mga tao ung kung gaano kabo-bobo at walang disiplina ang mga pinoy. enjoy eh.)
anyways going back. i really can never understand why pinoys can be really annoying most of the time.
what i'm talkin about is discipline.
when the train stopped at carriedo, the people were all in a hurry. idk why. but it was one helluva dipshit.
the people going out and going in were all rushing.
all at the same time. in a rush.
idk why talaga. ano ba problema nila ba't kailangan nilang magsabay-sabay with matching tulak pa talaga. parang mga gago. samantalang pwede namang magbigayan ng daan para sa isa't-isa. potaness na mga pinoy yan.
TINALO PA TAYO NG MGA LANGGAM, buti pa sila marunong mag give way.
kaya kung maliitin din tayo ng ibang bansa, grabe din eh. we-ll may karapatan naman sila. dahil talagang kalait-lait talaga ang bansa, AT ang race natin.
LOL tas kung maoffend ang mga pinoy sa remarks ng mga foreigners, ha, ibang klase din. kapal din ng mukha. di naman kapuri-puri ang race natin sus.
tapos eto pa ung pinaka-talagang-malupet-oh-so-ever.
edi nakababa na lahat ng mga kupaloids na mga pasahero, at nakasakay narin ung mga kupaloids na iba, ung mga katabi kong nakaupo bumaba narin ng tren, so hinihintay ko kung may uupo bang mas nangangailangan kesa sakin, eh pansin kong wala naman, so dapat uupo na ko.
tapos kung di ba naman dun sa putangnang mama na nakatayo sa likod ko before ay dapat nakaupo ako.
aba'y, si manong nakipag-unahan pa sakin para lang makaupo.
with matching tulak pa, samantalang nung nag-aabang ako kung may uupo ba di naman siya kumikibo. pucha.
masaklap pa dun, hindi naman siya lolo para pagbigyan ng upuan.
he must've been in his late 30's.
whatta gentleman.
fcuk.
PINOYS ARE LIKE BARBARIANS.
what an embarassment.
this happening made me pissed so much i just had to blog about it. (at sa sobrang init ng ulo ko kanina, naging bitch na kami ni densyo at wala ng humpay ang paririnig namin sa mga tao ung kung gaano kabo-bobo at walang disiplina ang mga pinoy. enjoy eh.)
Labels: barbarians, blah, discipline, dj blaaah, LRT, pissed, stupid filipinos, stupidity
Tuesday, January 6, 2009
.. each and every single day..
just last night, before comin to work, densyo picked me up ((as always) even if my shift starts at 10pm, and his starts at 12 in the midnight)
and before we met up, we were talkin on the phone, and we were just whispering sweet nothings to each other like how excited we are and how we missed each other a lot (even if we were together the day before LOL(i know, it's cheesy, but hey, what do you care, we're in love, c'mon, give us a break))
and then..
suddenly after a short brief of silence..
he started crying..
i swear, it was like the sweetest thing a guy could ever do for a girl.
so i asked him why he's crying.
he whispered, "coz i miss you a lot.."
for real, man.
i was so effin touched, i just wanted to hug him and feel his heart beat onto mine.
it was the sweetest thing ever, i got speechless.
but of course i comforted him.
i told him, "don't worry, we'll be together again in a while..", with a smile actually on my face.. :)
that's all actually, i just wanted to share this really blissful moment.
and wala lang.. ü
this is actually the first time in my life that i ever got excited about gettin' married.. ü
gawd, i am SO in love. ♥
just last night, before comin to work, densyo picked me up ((as always) even if my shift starts at 10pm, and his starts at 12 in the midnight)
and before we met up, we were talkin on the phone, and we were just whispering sweet nothings to each other like how excited we are and how we missed each other a lot (even if we were together the day before LOL(i know, it's cheesy, but hey, what do you care, we're in love, c'mon, give us a break))
and then..
suddenly after a short brief of silence..
he started crying..
i swear, it was like the sweetest thing a guy could ever do for a girl.
so i asked him why he's crying.
he whispered, "coz i miss you a lot.."
for real, man.
i was so effin touched, i just wanted to hug him and feel his heart beat onto mine.
it was the sweetest thing ever, i got speechless.
but of course i comforted him.
i told him, "don't worry, we'll be together again in a while..", with a smile actually on my face.. :)
that's all actually, i just wanted to share this really blissful moment.
and wala lang.. ü
this is actually the first time in my life that i ever got excited about gettin' married.. ü
gawd, i am SO in love. ♥